Most of my things tend to be #romance oriented, but plenty of #asexual & #aromantic characters sneak in. ...i'm #aroace myself so :)

Currently, I'm revising a 105k queer, #interstellar and vaguely #omegaverse novel. I'm also outlining a human/monster romance novel. I am also (supposedly) revising a fantasy #transmigration novel. And I am also (yes, I know, that's a lot of “also”s), at the very same time, writing about four other things on my Patreon. I contain multitudes. I am complex. Good luck with that, my writing career.

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But monster romances, probably more than any monster stories—because you’re meant to like and root for the monster—run the risk of making the monsters… too human. They act like humans, they talk like humans, they understand social cues like humans, they have body language like humans. Even the Monstrous series by Lily Mayne that I enjoy so much is not immune; indeed, when they talk they sound so human it’s almost shocking.

(Make no mistake, I still like and recommend the books.)

And obviously there are times when that’s on purpose, but those times isn’t what this post is about.

I want to read a monster romance—a monster that’s a little too out of touch with reality, that moves strangely, that can’t read human body language, that has an entirely different body language, that takes things too literal or not literal enough, that has a different culture and outlook on life, that thinks humans are Other and strange, that breathes too much air and have a body that’s so symmetric it’s horrific. I want a monster—not a human in monster skin.

I remember #reading a novel with a dragon protagonist on Tapas oh, actual years ago now. It was interesting, and I’m pretty sure it was on sale. I think I actually bought all chapters upfront! So I was excited about it!

But there was nothing inhuman, nothing draconic, nothing strange or unfamiliar about the protagonist.

He was not a dragon, just occasionally told me so.

I’m attempting to write a Monster/Human Romance myself (at the moment, it’s kind of a mix of #steampunk and #fantasy, and also very #gay) and this is something I worry about. How do I make the monsters different enough, but also keep them relatable, and understandable, and attractive?

Then I remember that humans can form emotional connections with literally anything, and I try not to care so much anymore. (At least not on the first draft!)

Anyway, wish me luck in writing!